Saying I am sorry in Korean is as necessary as saying thank you. Korean culture requires good manners and being humble. Expressing sorry or apology doesnโt only show your sincerity but also your respect for other people. If you are K-pop addict, especially K-drama lovers, probably you are familiar with term ๋ฏธ์ (mian) or sorry. Just like ์ฌ๋ํด (saranghae) or I love you in Korean, ๋ฏธ์ํด (mianhae) is one of our first Korean vocabularies. Actually, there are several ways to express apology in Korean. In this section, we will discuss 5 ways to express I am sorry in Korean.
1. ์ฃ์กํ๋ค โ Standard Way to Say I am Sorry in Korean
We begin with the basic way to express I am sorry in Korean: ์ฃ์กํ๋ค (jwesonghada). This term sounds more formal. If you are in formal occasions such as office, institutions, school, you should say ์ฃ์กํฉ๋๋ค (jwesonghamnida). This honorific way is applicable for talking to older people too. ์ฃ์กํด์ (Jwesonghaeyo) is still polite but sounds more casual. Meanwhile, you may say ์ฃ์กํด (jwesonghae) only if you are talking to people in the same age, younger people, or close friends. And what if someone apologizes to us? You can react ์๋๋๋ค (animnida), or ์๋์์ (anieyo), or ์๋์ผ (aniya). Again, your reaction depends on what kind of occasions you are in.
2. ๋ฏธ์ํ๋ค โ Common Way to Say I am Sorry in Korean
๋ฏธ์ํ๋ค (Mianhada) is a bit different from ์ฃ์กํ๋ค (jwesonghada). Its sense is more casual than ์ฃ์กํ๋ค (jwesonghada). This term literally means I am sorry in Korean. Its seems like the sense is deeper than apology. For formal and polite way, please say ๋ฏธ์ํฉ๋๋ค (mianhamnida). If you prefer casual but still polite, you should say ๋ฏธ์ํด์ (mianhaeyo). Meanwhile, you can say in informal (banmal) way like ๋ฏธ์ํด (mianhae) or just ๋ฏธ์ (mian) to your close friends. What if someone says sorry to you? You can reply ๊ด์ฐฎ์ต๋๋ค (gwaenchanseumnida), or ๊ด์ฐฎ์์ (gwaenchanayo), or ๊ด์ฐฎ์ (gwaenchanha). Still, it depends on the circumstances. It has equivalent meaning to โIt is alrightโ in English.
3. ์ฌ๊ณผํ๋ค
์ฌ๊ณผ (Sagwa) doesnโt only mean apple fruit but also apology expression. ์ฌ๊ณผํ๋ค (Sagwahada) is another way to apologize in Korean. It is commonly used in informal occasions, but it we can also use it in formal way such as business. We frequently find term ์ฌ๊ณผํ๋ค (Sagwahada) in business correspondence such as complaint email. We may say ์ง์ฌ์ผ๋ก ์ฌ๊ณผ๋๋ฆฝ๋๋ค (jinsimeuro sagwadeurimnida). It means โI sincerely apologizeโ in English. By saying it, you show sincerity and respect to someone you are talking to. If you want someone to apologize, you may ask ์ฌ๊ณผํ์ธ์ (sagwahaseyo). It means โplease apologizeโ or politely asking someone to apologize.
4. ์ค์ํ๋ค โ Next Step after Saying I am Sorry in Korean
This is the next step after apology. Admitting your mistake is necessary to convince people that you are really sorry. Please say ์ค์ํ์ต๋๋ค (silsuhaesseumnida) which means โI made mistakeโ. This is formal and polite expression. For more casual but still polite, you can say ์ค์ํ์ด์ (silsuhaesseoyo). If you want to admit to your close friends, you can just say ์ค์ํ์ด (silsuhaesseo). Surely, it is better if you say it in complete statement: to apologize and admit mistake. Please say ์ฃ์กํฉ๋๋ค. ์ ๊ฐ ์ค์ํ์ต๋๋ค (Jwesonghamnida. Jega silsuhaesseumnida). It means โI am sorry. I made mistakeโ.
5. ์๋ชปํ๋ค
This is the other way to admit your mistake. You can simply say ์๋ชปํ์ต๋๋ค (jalmothaesseumnida). It could be translated to โIt was my faultโ. This is a formal and polite way to express I am sorry and admit your fault in Korean. You use this term after you realize that you did something wrong so you should ask for forgiveness. If you prefer casual but still polite term, you may say ๋ค๊ฐ ์๋ชปํ์ด์ (Nega jalmothaesseoyo). If you want to apologize to your close friends, you may just say ๋ค๊ฐ ์๋ชปํ์ด (jalmothaesseo). Sometimes, people will rub their hands together while saying their apology.